Appreciating Love Languages!


The idea of five love languages was developed by Dr. Gary Chapman in his book “The Five Love Languages : How to Express Heartfelt Commitment to Your Mate.”

Words of Affirmation.

If this is your partner’s love language. Unexpected compliments and randomly telling them ‘I Love You’ will mean the world to them. Encouraging them when they are going through a shitty day or a rough patch will help boost their mood and improve their day. Expressing that you are grateful that they are in your life and appreciating the little things they do for you or family help them feel loved and secure.

Physical Touch.

Physical touch doesn’t mean being very touchy. Small gestures like hugs, kisses on the forehead, holding their hand randomly, cuddling while watching tv or even sitting close to each other significantly boost their sense of security in the relationship. Consistent physical touch stimulate feelings of love and trust, making the couple more attached to each other. When your partner is going through a difficult time a comforting touch will be reassuring and acts as a protective shield against stress or fear.

Quality Time.

Quality time is all about giving your partner undivided attention while spending time together. Having shared activities that you both enjoy like going for a walk or working out, making coffee, watching a movie enhance the quality of the relationship. Quality time doesn’t always have to be about activities, sometimes even having a meaningful help the couple share thoughts, feelings creating a deeper connection. Spending time together creates cherished memories, these memories will eventually strengthen the bond.

Acts of Service.

For a person who believes in ‘Action speaks Louder than Words’, helping in their day to day activities when they are feeling low and sharing household work will make them feel valued and loved.

Receiving Gifts.

Don’t misinterpret this love language as materialism. The value of the gift doesn’t matter, it is the thought which matters. Surprising your partner with a small thoughtful gift will help them feel good and appreciated.

Understanding and constantly taking an effort will help the relationship blossom into a beautiful one.